In Dawoodi Bohra culture, traditional meals are eaten from a ‘thaal’ – an enormous plate, raised on a short stool, around which eight or nine people can sit and share food. At weddings, festivals and other community events, dining together around a thaal has always been a uniquely Bohra way to meet new people, socialise, and bond with friends.
Since 2017, the thaal has also been the foundation of Sahiyo’s flagship program for community engagement: ‘Thaal Pe Charcha’ or TPC. Loosely translated as ‘discussions over food’, the TPC program provides safe, survivor-centred spaces for community members to share their experiences about female genital cutting, all while bonding over a traditional thaal meal.
At TPC events, participants share their stories and feelings about Khatna, support each other, ask questions, discuss the nuances of FGC and find common ground to work collectively towards ending the practice. Eating around the thaal helps break social barriers, making it an ideal setting to initiate conversations on such a sensitive topic.
As of 2025, Sahiyo has organised 18 TPC events, reaching more than 255 participants. The majority of these gatherings have been in India: 12 in Mumbai, one each in Pune and Ahmedabad, and two virtual TPCs for Bohras across the country. Two TPC events were also held in the U.S. Most participants are Dawoodi Bohra women across different age groups, but men, too, have enthusiastically participated in the program.
TPC is designed to be scalable at the grassroots level: since the thaal is an inherent part of daily Bohra life, community members can choose to host a TPC gathering in their own homes, with an intimate group of 8-10 friends and relatives. Sahiyo offers a ‘Host your own TPC’ training module to interested hosts, providing guidance on the most effective ways to initiate and navigate sensitive conversations on FGC.
So far, two of Sahiyo’s TPC participants in India have hosted their own events at home – one in Mumbai and the other in Pune.
To participate in a TPC, host your own event, or invite us to host a TPC in your town, reach out to chandni@sahiyo.org.