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Thaal Pe Charcha

In Dawoodi Bohra culture, traditional meals are eaten from a ‘thaal’ – an enormous plate, raised on a short stool, around which eight or nine people can sit and share food. At weddings, festivals and other community events, dining together around a thaal has always been a uniquely Bohra way to meet new people, socialise, and bond with friends. 

Since 2017, the thaal has also been the foundation of Sahiyo’s flagship program for community engagement: ‘Thaal Pe Charcha’ or TPC. Loosely translated as ‘discussions over food’, the TPC program provides safe, survivor-centred spaces for community members to share their experiences about female genital cutting, all while bonding over a traditional thaal meal. 

At TPC events, participants share their stories and feelings about Khatna, support each other, ask questions, discuss the nuances of FGC and find common ground to work collectively towards ending the practice. Eating around the thaal helps break social barriers, making it an ideal setting to initiate conversations on such a sensitive topic.

As of 2025, Sahiyo has organised 18 TPC events, reaching more than 255 participants. The majority of these gatherings have been in India: 12 in Mumbai, one each in Pune and Ahmedabad, and two virtual TPCs for Bohras across the country. Two TPC events were also held in the U.S. Most participants are Dawoodi Bohra women across different age groups, but men, too, have enthusiastically participated in the program.  

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Impact

  • Support for Survivors: TPC participants consistently report feeling heard, validated, and empowered to navigate family and community pressures with respect to FGC. Here’s what one survivor and young mother had to say after attending a TPC event in Mumbai in 2018:
  • Community Dialogue: TPC provides education and communication strategies that participants have successfully used to discuss FGC with their families. According to one participant:
  • Prevention and Behavioural Change: Participants have used the awareness and communication tools gained through TPC to prevent FGC in their families – on their daughters, nieces and granddaughters. This has provided us with anecdotal evidence of behavioural change within the community.

  • Safe Spaces for Discussion: TPC fosters meaningful conversations between women and men, allies, and community members, strengthening local networks committed to ending FGM/C.

Host Your Own TPC

TPC is designed to be scalable at the grassroots level: since the thaal is an inherent part of daily Bohra life, community members can choose to host a TPC gathering in their own homes, with an intimate group of 8-10 friends and relatives. Sahiyo offers a ‘Host your own TPC’ training module to interested hosts, providing guidance on the most effective ways to initiate and navigate sensitive conversations on FGC. 

So far, two of Sahiyo’s TPC participants in India have hosted their own events at home – one in Mumbai and the other in Pune. 

To participate in a TPC, host your own event, or invite us to host a TPC in your town, reach out to chandni@sahiyo.org.

Read about our past TPC events below: