Many survivors grow up believing that conversations about female genital cutting (FGC) belong only between women. Yet fathers, brothers, partners, and other men are also part of the communities where FGC persists, and a part of the communities working to end it.

Through Sahiyo’s male engagement program, Bhaiyo, we have shared stories that explore the role men can play in ending FGC. Whether by listening to survivors, supporting loved ones, questioning harmful practices, or speaking out within their communities, these stories show that change is possible when more people join the conversation.

This Father’s Day, we’re reflecting on the role fathers and male allies can play in helping end FGC. From fathers who listen and support survivors to men who are using their voices to challenge harmful norms, the stories below highlight the many ways that male engagement can contribute to lasting change:

• Breaking the Silence: A Conversation with My Father About FGM/C: In this personal reflection, a survivor shares what it was like to have an honest conversation with her father about FGM/C, revealing the challenges, emotions, and possibilities that can emerge when families begin talking openly about the practice.
• Dear daughter, I am sorry you were circumcised: In this powerful letter, a father reflects on his role in a community affected by FGC and takes accountability for the silence and inaction that can allow harmful practices to continue. Addressing his daughter directly, he shares his commitment to challenging these norms and helping create a future where girls can grow up free from FGC.
• A Conversation with a Bhaiyo: Advising a Concerned Father: When a father became concerned that his daughters might be at risk of FGC, he sought advice from a member of Bhaiyo. This story highlights the importance of male allyship, open dialogue, and the role fathers can play in preventing FGC and advocating for their children.

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As we celebrate Father’s Day this year, we recognize the fathers and male allies who choose to listen, learn, and stand alongside survivors. Their willingness to challenge harmful norms, support open dialogue, and advocate for change helps create a future where girls can grow up free from FGC.